I didn't know how to communicate what I have in my mind but this video might help you out a bit. @Dholu
Dearest Suechi,
This has deeply resonated with me. The wonderful lady had talked about balance between Practical and Emotional approach, something which I now think I have been able to manage. Though at this stage the emotional anxieties seem to be over ruling. But I shall remember this wisdom.
My next take from this is: How do I identify my tip?
Cheers and thanks for sharing.
@dholu I think the final remarks where she tells the 2 points should answer it.
If not then maybe this might help.
At your current situation, do you have enough finance that can support you for your basic needs or simple lifestyle which is comfortable for you?
Is there anything that you still need to take care of for which you're putting in more effort over taking care of yourself?
When would you say... okay I have done everything that needs to be done.. now I can finally do things for myself or things that I love to do.. I can finally spend some time for myself.. What is this scenerio or situation for you?
Example,
For me.. I want to have a piece of land so that I can grow my own food, have a shelter, setup a solar panel if I want to have access to electricity(I would be okay to live without it).
Have some sort of rainwater harvest system so that I dont have to depend on govt. for it(they send contaminated water anyways).
I probably would have around 20Lakh rupess because thats the tax bracket for businesses.. and I'm not sure whats the tax bracket in agriculture.
I would buy a health insurance(not required) but I might have more money so I would spend it there.
So my tip would be to able to setup this lifestyle of mine thats all.