“ the One who seeks…finds…”
– Dholu
Hi 👋 I am Dholu,
and I am learning to live my life, one day at a time...
it’s a pleasure to meet you!
I welcome you to my personal blog; a space where I explore my thoughts, experiences, and the connections that shape my journey. This blog reflects my conversations with myself and the special people who hold an important place in my life.
Here, you’ll find reflections, philosophies, and spontaneous musings that capture my evolving perspective over time. There’s also a special section called “Spirit Guides,” where I share insights from wise souls who chose to graciously guide me along my path.
I hope you enjoy your time here. Feel free to log in and join me in this ongoing exploration of life and self.
What is you tone? More poetic and introspective, or more conversational and friendly, or perhaps Spiritually inclined? Tell me!
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A Vessel Carved by Time
“A vessel is defined as a large boat or ship, a container for holding liquids, or a tube in the body that carries fluids, such as blood” – So what does it mean here? What or who is it for?
My Blog
My blog posts! Curated experiences put together in the form of words and pictures. Wonder what you would make of them…!!!
Don’t Want it anymore
I needed em,I wanted em,I desired em,I acquired em,em got taken away,I reNeeded em,I reWanted em,I reDesired em,em were Available again,I no longer needed em… – realised the notion when a dear friend simply stated “Don’t want it anymore”.
Quantifiable approach to Purpose of my life
I had a chance to sit with Amit Sachdeva, my childhood buddy. We happened to chat about what could the purpose of our lives be. He opened up by asking me what is it that I wanted in life in…
Do it now
Found a new meaning for the idiom, “Kal kare so aaj kar, aaj kare so ab”. It has never been about doing tasks, it is about detachment by completion. – Realised while trying to explain to my wife the merits…
My Path
“Tend to my own goals, thoughts, ambitions. Tend to my own path, that which is neither good nor bad, but my own” – Realised while playing a game called Star Wars Squadrons and witnessing the story of two sides of…
New year wish
Away from the digital wishes,I send you an original lyric,I hereby brew a potion of wishes,Even though I am not a cleric,May you find the best in the world,Which actually is nothing but scenic,Please accept my heartfelt say,Hope this year…
The first wisdom
Network as much as you can but keep them as acquaintance not friends… and keep friends….. friends. – Steve Gupta I received the very first wisdom from my son. It speaks of control, filter and clarity. I realised the formidable…
Seeketh Findeth
The one who seeks… finds… – I have had this realisation from some time and I think it’s best to pen it down. One does find something when one seeks.
Echoed Presence
Where do you live, asks the Lady,Close to you, says the naughty baby,The Lady shrugs off, says don’t jest,Tell me the place where each night, you rest,The baby points a finger, towards the Lady’s behest,I live at a place where…
The Mirrored Permit
Permission given to another is actually a permission given to myself… Realised at the time of caring for my mum through her cancer, I came to see that permission isn’t really granted to the other person — it’s permission I…
My Books of knowledge
I have recently found a new interest in reading books. My passion to understand perspectives lead me to believe that book can be a vital source of understanding how authors feel about a particular situation. Since, the chance of personally knowing the authors is remote so reading their book may be a good way to see what they derive of the instances of human interest. My first book suggestion was made by my spirit guide @diego and he insisted that i read “The Courage to be Disliked”, which I did and liked very much. I think i will spend more time on reading books and gather an understanding of perspectives.
The Kybalion Three Initiates
A rather difficult read. Introduced to me by my buddy Diego, he said that I will have a changed way to look at the people around me after reading this. The book mentions that a reader reads the book and…
The Way to Happiness
I came across this book by surprise. One fine day at my office a wonderful person, Jyoti Ji, gifted me with this little booklet. I was instantly full of questions and doubts. So i managed to spend a few minutes…
Tuesdays with Morrie
I have cried throughout the read. I found about this book while watching a YouTube video when a person mentioned about this book that deals with the loss of dear ones. I had just lost my mum to pancreatic cancer.…
The Untethered Soul
Update: 28th January 2026 I started to read this book again. I cant remember the reason why I stopped reading it in the first place but today i restarted reading it. Was pleasantly surprised to see my thought process still…
My Games Collection
Video games have been a large part of my life till now. Have they been my escape, or have they been my source of knowledge, or simply a method to pass the time? Who knows!
Nonetheless I have loved them and I remember playing them when I was as young as four years old. A game called Donkey Kong (I think) on Atari systems I believe. It has been quite a journey till now and I am quite glad it is happening still.
Following are the games that I remember to have really enjoyed playing. Sure there are countless more but these should by far be the ones I acknowledge as enjoyed dearly. Do share with me if you have played any of these.
Cheers!
Elden Ring
My first souls like game. Before this i was pretty scared of playing the souls like games. I was told that I had to manage a health bar, along with an ever affected stamina bar, with…
Mass Effect 3
Mass Effect Three has taken me by surprise. Coming from the experience of a character driven Mass Effect 2, this one shifted the focus completely on the story. There is loss, an unavoidable loss of people…
Mass Effect 2
Mass Effect Two is a significant improvement over the first game. The storyline is deep and the world building seems amazing. It build upon part one of the game and makes you play the flip side…
Mass Effect 1
Another of an amazing title suggested by awesome Blitzy. The game is part of the Mass Effect Legendary edition that spans over all Mass Effect series via viz Mass Effect 1, 2 and 3. I was…
Core Keeper
Core Keeper came as welcome surprise with the PS plus pass. I recall watching a few videos about this game and have wanted to play it for sometime now. So I gave it a try. With…
Dragons Dogma 2
Dragon’s Dogma 2 is a long due game that have been dearly recommended to me by my awesome friend Sir Pyrytspryt. I remember using Sir Pie’s and Sir Luna’s pawn when I first tried to play…
Kingdom Come: Deliverance II
11 Oct 2025 – Sir @blitzy recommended this game to me. It has taken to me about 60 plus hours and I am still at the starting area of the game. They say it is an…
World of Tanks
Hahaha… this was a fun impulse game played for two days. I had finished the awesome play to KCD2 and now I cannot seam to find the suitable game to play. But I enjoyed two days…
Disney Epic Mickey: Rebrushed
I am pleasantly surprised to play this game. This one is included in the free monthly games for the month of January 2026. I played the game after playing Battlefield 6 and in wait for Sir…
Watch List
My dad once bought me a VCR. A fairly large box that used to invite cassettes to used in them to play. I think they were magnetic tapes. I do remember though why my dad bought it for me. It was because one of my elder cousins scolded me on using one of his. Hahaha.. love you dad 🥰!!! Given that time and now i have watched countless movies and many of them have etched a nice memorabilia in my memory slots. Behold my little time capsule…
Drishyam – The Conclusion
Drishyam is one of movies that I have liked a lot. The first part was mind blowing and…
Hanuman Ansh
My wife wanted to see this movie. It is story about a person called Neeb Karori Baba who…
Dr Stone
Turning out to be one of the most fun science based series. The plot is quite nice where…
Akhanda 2: Thaandavam
It is not my choice to watch Hindi movies and this one was put on by my beloved…
Wake up dead man
Surprisingly engaging this one was. I joined up mid movie while Steve was watching it. Initially, it seemed…
Enola Holmes
I heard about this movie a long time ago but never actually went along watching it. It was…
Rogue One: A star Wars Story
Will write a full review soon.
TMNT
Will write a full review soon.
Gladiator
Will write a full review soon.
Mind Waves
I’m not entirely sure why I chose to call these scripts Mind Wave. Honestly, I think I wanted them to be like tweets, but I didn’t want to use that term. So, I went with something that felt more personal — something that spoke my mind. Maybe it’s a bit silly, but I still love it. These are just random thoughts that might not make sense to everyone, yet for some, they might capture exactly what I felt. I’m curious — how do you see them?