ā the One who seeksā¦findsā¦ā
– Dholu
Hi š I am Dholu,
and I am learning to live my life, one day at a time...
itās a pleasure to meet you!
I welcome you to my personal blog; a space where I explore my thoughts, experiences, and the connections that shape my journey. This blog reflects my conversations with myself and the special people who hold an important place in my life.
Here, youāll find reflections, philosophies, and spontaneous musings that capture my evolving perspective over time. Thereās also a special section called āSpirit Guides,ā where I share insights from wise souls who chose to graciously guide me along my path.
I hope you enjoy your time here. Feel free to log in and join me in this ongoing exploration of life and self.
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Iām not entirely sure why I chose to call these scripts Mind Wave. Honestly, I think I wanted them to be like tweets, but I didnāt want to use that term. So, I went with something that felt more personal ā something that spoke my mind. Maybe itās a bit silly, but I still love it. These are just random thoughts that might not make sense to everyone, yet for some, they might capture exactly what I felt. Iām curious ā how do you see them?
Another morning of confused state. I know what tasks I have to do today. But the question persists. What do I truly want to achieve. My friendā¦
I had a strange experience today. At the time of my lunch I was blissfully attended by the person who took my order by already punching inā¦
in the past two days I have been to boldly informed that I do not think well before speaking. That my words are not well thought ofā¦
I have this widget for my phone that shows a random quote. Today I came across the one that says āFlow never forceā. I cannot understand theā¦
There seems to be a constant deterioration in the air quality in my city. It could also be my lungs š«. But I am feeling difficult toā¦
With so many things to do in my list I find myself shifting up and down on tasks. Majorly because the tasks require other people to performā¦
Your past is a lesson… Not a life sentence. Forgive yourself and focus on the future. Mel Robbins It seems nice to know how simple this quoteā¦
Apna Ghoto, apna nasha karo… – cited casually by Smt. Anita Keswani, awesome mother of my Jija ji, Karan Keswani while chatting about how people make tooā¦
Steve Maraboli says, āCry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.ā What does this even mean? Does it refer toā¦
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My blog posts! Curated experiences put together in the form of words and pictures. Wonder what you would make of themā¦!!!
The first wisdom
Network as much as you can but keep them as acquaintance not friendsā¦ and keep friendsā¦.. friends. – Steve Gupta I received the very first wisdom from my son. It speaks of control, filter and clarity. I realised the formidableā¦
Seeketh Findeth
The one who seeksā¦ findsā¦ – I have had this realisation from some time and I think itās best to pen it down. One does find something when one seeks.
Echoed Presence
Where do you live, asks the Lady,Close to you, says the naughty baby,The Lady shrugs off, says donāt jest,Tell me the place where each night, you rest,The baby points a finger, towards the Ladyās behest,I live at a place whereā¦
The Mirrored Permit
Permission given to another is actually a permission given to myselfā¦ Realised at the time of caring for my mum through her cancer, I came to see that permission isn’t really granted to the other person ā it’s permission Iā¦
Futile Complaining
āLucky I am, if I have time to think about anythingā – Bhupinder Ji, 18th October 2025, Khanna I have just had an incredible realisation bestowed upon me by my awesome friend Bhupinder Ji. He described the acquisition of peaceā¦
Failure Rethought
The failure is not because you are not worthy, Itās because you are not doing what you are meant to do..!!! realised while talking to Sir Emanshu Alavadi, friend of my awesome brother in law, Karan Keswani while having aā¦
All hail the Spouse’s success
I am 100% NOT jealous with my spouse’s success Realised while watching a show where Salman Khan mentioned that spouses feel jealousy when there is a growing difference in professional success…
Nightreign – Fun name combinations
One of the more rather delightful aspect of running any match is to see the combination of the names that pop up before the night farers glide into the ever growing night. Here are such wonderful and sometimes funny combinationsā¦
Wholeness
Life is beautiful, so is its living, so is its passing Realised while talking to a transitioning soul…
Love n Hate
If I truly love you, how can I possibly hate you for who you truly are..! Realised while thinking about all the struggling connections at the moment.